Hauv kev ua niam txiv, muaj ntau yam ntaub ntawv, tab sis kev pom zoo me me. Txawm li cas los xij, txawm tias koj lub nyoob hoom qav taub los yog ntau yam dawb, nruab qhov tsaus ntuj nti lossis tshuab los ntawm kev pw tsaug zog, pab vegan nplej tais lossis Coco Krispies, nws yog cov niam txiv tsawg leej uas tsis ua raws li tsawg kawg. qee ntawm American Academy ntawm Pediatrics ' cov lus qhia (thiab los ntawm kev ua raws li, peb txhais tau tias muaj kev paub dhau los ntawm lawv kom peb paub tias thaum twg xav ua txhaum ntxiv).
Thiab tam sim no, ntxiv rau kev qhia peb txog thaum twg peb yuav tsum qhia cov khoom khov thiab yuav tsum muaj pes tsawg teev pw tsaug zog menyuam yaus, peb tau kawm AAP muaj kev xav txog tias peb cov menyuam yuav tsum muaj hnub nyoog npaum li cas ua ntej lawv sim ua qee yam kev ywj pheej, xws li taug kev mus kawm ntawv ntawm lawv tus kheej lossis tseem hla txoj kev solo.
Lawv qhov xaus? Hnub nyoog kaum thaum ntxov.
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Cov ntaub ntawv no los ntawm kev txaus siab Wall Street Journal tsab xov xwm hu ua The Overprotected American Child. Lub ntsiab lus, ib tus kws sau ntawv Andrea Petersen: Kev ua niam ua txiv muaj zog heev tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev phom sij tiag tiag. Psychologists thiab cov kws qhia ntawv pom tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb ua rau muaj kev nce siab ntawm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas raug kuaj pom tias muaj kev ntxhov siab. Tus neeg siab phem tiag tiag? Rau cov menyuam yaus uas twb ntxhov siab lawm, kev tiv thaiv ntau dhau tuaj yeem ua rau mob hnyav dua. 'Nws txhawb ntxiv rau tus menyuam tias muaj qee yam uas lawv yuav tsum ntshai thiab lub ntiaj teb yog qhov chaw txaus ntshai thiab Kuv ua tsis tau li ntawd rau kuv tus kheej Rebecca Rialon Berry, tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws ntawm NYU Langone Child Study Center. Cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, hais cov kws tshaj lij? Ntau autonomy.
Thiab, ntawm qhov kawg, nws hloov tawm hla txoj kev yam tsis muaj tus neeg laus pab yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Txawm li cas los xij, thaum nws los txog rau kev loj hlob, kev paub txog kev phom sij thiab kev paub txog kev khiav tsheb yuav siv sij hawm los taug kev hla kev, cov kws tshawb fawb ceeb toom tias txawm tias qee tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog kaum xyoo yuav tsis ua haujlwm.
Kev tshawb fawb tau pom tias cov menyuam yaus taug kev mus rau tsev kawm ntawv feem ntau tsis nrhiav kev tsheb lossis nres ntawm qhov thaiv ua ntej nkag mus rau hauv txoj kev, sau Petersen. Nws cites lub AAP cov lus tshaj tawm txoj cai hais tias cov niam txiv muaj feem yuav overestimate lawv cov me nyuam muaj peev xwm hla txoj kev nyab xeeb.
Hauv qab kab? Koj paub koj tus menyuam zoo tshaj plaws. Tom qab kawm txog ntau pawg hnub nyoog, AAP xaus lus: Kev txhim kho cov neeg taug kev kev txawj ntse yog qhov sib txawv heev xws li ob peb ntawm cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog 5 xyoos ua tau zoo dua li qee tus menyuam hnub nyoog 11 xyoos ntawm tag nrho cov neeg taug kev cov qhab nia. Yog li cov lus qhia ib sab, nws tseem yog niam txiv txoj haujlwm los txheeb xyuas qhov twg ntawm qhov muaj peev xwm txuas ntxiv lawv cov menyuam zaum (los yog, taug kev).
Hais txog: Koj puas kam cia koj tus menyuam ua si ntawm 'Danger Playground'?
