Nws qhia koj tias nws pom lub neej yav tom ntej nrog koj. Nws tso hnub hmo rau ntawm daim ntawv qhia hnub, nug seb koj niam lub npe yog dab tsi, hais kom ntsib koj cov phooj ywg, hu xov tooj tom qab kev sib deev thiab txawm tias npaj mus so romantic me ntsis.
Thiab muaj ib hnub, nws hais tias nws tsis paub meej txog koj. Nws tsis meej pem. Nws tsis nyob hauv txoj haujlwm kom mob siab rau leej twg tam sim no. Thiab tam sim ntawd, koj tab tom rov qab txoj kev sib raug zoo, xav tsis thoob tias koj tau ua dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm, qhov twg koj nco cov cim. Kev ceeb toom Spoiler: Tsis muaj cov cim qhia.
Yog lawm. Koj tau npau suav, kuv tus phooj ywg.
zaj movie sib hlub heev
Dab tsi hauv ntiaj teb yog 'dreamscaping'?
Dreamscapers yog cov neeg uas nthuav tawm cov qauv ntawm kev tsim tsev fuabtais-hauv-tus-huab kev sib raug zoo uas dag tus neeg uas lawv pom hauv kev xav tias nws tsis yog ib yam dab tsi tiag tiag tab sis qee yam zoo heev. Kev npau suav lawv tsim yog qhov pom pom, tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi los txhawb nws. Thaum nws crumbles, koj tsis tau npaj, tab sis lawv taug kev deb unscathed thiab txav mus rau tom ntej fairy taleas.
Dreamscapers yog kev cog lus-phobes ntawm lub siab, tab sis lawv tsis paub txog lawv tus kheej yuam. Vim tias lawv xav tau txhua yam zoo uas tuaj nrog kev sib raug zoo (thiab tsis muaj qhov phem), lawv nyob hauv lub pas dej da dej ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj.
Puas yog kev npau suav zoo ib yam li coj ib tug neeg mus?
Zoo...tab sis tsis yog. Thaum ib tug neeg coj koj mus, lawv feem ntau paub txog qhov tseeb tias lawv tsis muaj kev xav rau koj tab sis tau txais qee yam ntawm qhov kev paub - kev saib xyuas, kev sib deev, kev zoo siab, kev ua si, thiab lwm yam. (Yog, nws tseem yog qhov ntxoov ntxoo AF .)
yuav ua li cas tshem tawm cov voj tsaus nti hauv qab lub qhov muag sai
Dreamscapers, ntawm qhov tod tes, yog surrealists. Lawv tsis paub tias lawv lub zeem muag rau cov kev sib raug zoo no yog nyob rau hauv kev xav tej yam yees siv. Lawv tsim cov huab cua zoo tshaj plaws rau kev sib tham los ntawm lawv cov lus thiab kev ua-tus qauv piv txwv ntawm kev npau suav sab nraum zoov bistro bedecked hauv lub teeb ci ntsa iab. Tab sis qhov thib ob txoj kev sib raug zoo tawm ntawm cov npauj npaim theem thiab pib ua tiag tiag, lub façade poob - koj tau noj pizza txias rau ntawm lub suab khoob tag nrho lub sijhawm.
cov zaub mov zoo tshaj los txo cov rog plab
Vim li cas ib tug yuav poob rau ib tug dreamscaper?
Dreamscapers yog qhov zoo ntawm kev sib tham, thiab lawv zoo ua rau tib neeg poob rau lawv. Lawv tsis xav txog lawv qhov kev ua tshwj tsis yog tias lawv yuav tsum tau (gasp!) hloov lawv. Lawv nyeem cov kev xav thiab vibes vwm zoo thiab paub tseeb tias lawv hnub xav hnov, tsim lub tsev fuabtais hauv huab cib los ntawm cib. Lawv txuas tau yooj yim, tab sis lawv tsis txuas. Ntuj raug txim, nyuaj tsis yog poob rau ib tug dreamscaper.
Kuv yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob ua 'dreamscaper'?
Nco ntsoov: Tsis muaj leej twg paub koj zoo tom qab ib hnub; tsis muaj leej twg zoo tag nrho; thiab yog tias nws xav tias zoo dhau los ua qhov tseeb, qhov ntawd yog qhov xwm txheej. Ceev faj ntawm cov lus cog tseg thaum ntxov thiab tshaj tawm ntawm kev xav. Cov kev cia siab zoo tshaj plaws ua rau lawv txoj kev xav ua ntej lawv hais. Yog tias kev sib raug zoo mus rau qhov raug, lawv yuav tsis txaj muag ntawm kev cog lus, uas ua rau tus npau suav squirm. Ib tug neeg uas tiag tiag, tiag tiag rau hauv koj kuj tshwm sim rau koj, thiab tsis yog thaum nws lom zem thiab yam khoom ua tsaug , tab sis thaum koj xav tau tiag tiag - koj lub tsheb tawg, koj mob, koj tab tom ntsib teeb meem hauv tsev neeg. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug dreamscaper tshwm sim rau reel koj nyob rau hauv, nco ntsoov koj tus kheej tias koj tsim nyog zoo dua ib tug npau suav. Koj tsim nyog ib yam dab tsi tiag.
Jenna Birch yog ib tug neeg sau xov xwm thiab tus sau ntawm Txoj Kev Hlub Gap: Lub Hom Phiaj Radical los yeej hauv Lub Neej thiab Kev Hlub , daim ntawv qhia kev sib raug zoo rau cov poj niam niaj hnub, thiab ib tug cob qhia sib tham ( txais cov neeg siv khoom tshiab rau xyoo 2020). Txhawm rau nug nws cov lus nug, uas nws tuaj yeem teb rau hauv kab lus tom ntejPampereDpeopleny, email rau nws ntawm jen.birch@sbcglobal.net .
