Muaj ib txoj kab zoo ntawm kev hlub thiab kev npau taws. Raws li Robert J. Sternberg txoj kev xav ntawm kev hlub , infatuation yog rooted nyob rau hauv mob siab rau; koj nyob nraum wildly attracted rau tus neeg, koj zoo siab pom lawv, kev sib deev yog zoo, thiab lwm yam Meanwhile, romantic kev hlub yog rooted nyob rau hauv ob qho tib si mob siab rau thiab intimacy; koj muaj tag nrho cov khoom xyaw ntawm infatuation, ua ke nrog kev phooj ywg, kev ntseeg siab, kev txhawb nqa, thiab lwm yam.
Txij li thaum infatuation yog ib feem ntawm kev hlub, nws yuav nyuaj rau qhov txawv ntawm ob-tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tsis paub tseeb tias koj puas tau muaj kev hlub tag nrho. Tab sis ntawm no yog qee qhov cim qhia los txiav cov kev xav sib nrug, thiab qhov kuv niaj hnub ntxhov siab rau kuv cov neeg qhia kev cob qhia thaum lawv sim txiav txim siab seb qhov twg tshwm sim - kev hlub thiab kev npau taws - hauv kev sib raug zoo.
Yog hais tias koj phem xav nyob ib sab ntawm tus neeg ... nws yog infatuation
Feem ntau kuv tuaj yeem qhia tau thaum ib tus ntawm kuv cov neeg siv khoom txaus siab. Nws tsis tuaj yeem luag nyav; nws tham ib tug ton ntawm kev sib deev; nws giddy. Thiab qhov ntawd zoo heev! Nws tsuas yog tsis yog txhua yam. Infatuation yog rooted nyob rau hauv mob siab rau, excitement thiab ntshaw. Nws yog intoxicating. Tej zaum koj yuav xav tau lub cev nyob ze tus neeg ntau npaum li koj ua tau. Tab sis yog hais tias lawv yuav tsis yog koj thawj hu yog tias koj muaj ib hnub phem, los yog koj ntshai lub nra rau lawv nrog ib tug teeb meem, tej zaum nws tseem tsis tau hloov mus rau hauv kev hlub.
Yog tias koj xav tias nyab xeeb nyob ib puag ncig tus neeg ... nws yog kev hlub
Kev hlub yog siab ntev, kev hlub yog siab zoo...koj paub cov lus hais. Nrog kev hlub, koj xav tias muaj kev txhawb nqa tag nrho. Koj xav tias muaj peev xwm qhib tau txog koj txoj kev npau suav tob tshaj plaws thiab koj qhov kev ntshai tshaj plaws. Thaum koj nrog lawv, koj yeej xav tias lawv nyob - tsis zoo li lawv xav txog kev ua haujlwm, lossis tej zaum yuav tham nrog lwm tus hauv online - thiab qhov muaj nyob ntawd yog kev nplij siab. Ntau tus neeg siv khoom, uas muaj kev hlub, yuav qhia kuv tias lawv xav zoo li txhua yam yuav zoo thaum lawv tus khub nyob ib puag ncig. Qhov ntawd yog ib lub cim zoo heev.
Yog tias koj xav txog kev sib raug zoo, lossis xav tsis thoob tias lawv xav li cas ... nws yog kev npau taws
Kev hlub yog ob leeg. Infatuation, ntawm qhov tod tes, feem ntau yog ib sab. Yog tias koj npau taws heev, koj tuaj yeem siv sijhawm ntau los xav txog seb lawv puas zoo rau koj lossis mob siab rau koj. Tej zaum koj yuav xav txog tej yam me me, xws li dab tsi los sau rau hauv nruab nrab ntawm ib hnub, thaum lawv tseem tsis tau xa koj. Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb tas li txog seb lawv puas yuav tawm mus. Yog tias qhov tenor ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo yog qhov tsis meej, nws tseem tsis tau hlub.
dab tsi yog cov khoom ntawm lub cev qoj ib ce
Yog tias koj paub tias koj tuaj yeem suav rau lawv hauv kev kub ntxhov ... nws yog kev hlub
Cia peb hais tias koj lub tsheb tawg, lossis koj pom tias tus neeg koj hlub nyob hauv tsev kho mob. Koj puas hu tus neeg nug? Yog tias cov lus teb yog, thiab koj paub tias koj yuav tau txais tos nrog kev sov siab, txhawb nqa, kev nplij siab, nws yog kev hlub. Yog tias koj xav tias muaj kev kub ntxhov ntau dhau rau tus neeg los daws, nws yuav muaj kev npau taws heev. Kev hlub muaj qhov tob rau nws, thiab nws tsis ntshai ntawm teeb meem. Kev hlub nyob.
Yog tias koj txoj kev sib raug zoo feem ntau yog lub cev ... nws yog kev npau taws
Xav txog lub sijhawm koj siv nrog tus neeg koj pom. Puas yog kev sib deev yog ib feem loj ntawm nws? Koj puas yuav (lossis lawv) zoo dua sib txuas dua li tawm mus? Koj puas siv sijhawm tham tom qab koj tau txais lub cev, lossis nws puas nyuaj rau tham txog tej yam tiag tiag sab nraum chav pw? Koj puas mus rau hnub, ntsib phooj ywg, ntsib tsev neeg, koom nrog kev nyiam ua haujlwm? Los yog yuav tsum muaj kev sib deev ib txwm koom nrog hauv tag nrho koj cov kev sib tham? Kev sib deev yog qhov zoo thiab tseem ceeb hauv kev sib raug zoo romantic. Tab sis nrog kev hlub, nws tsis xav tias zoo li lub hauv paus tsom. Nws zoo li ib txoj hauv kev ntxiv, zoo siab los qhia tias koj hlub koj tus khub. Thaum tshawb nrhiav cov kab zoo, Kuv ib txwm nug kuv cov neeg siv khoom seb puas yog kev sib deev yog qhov tseem ceeb lossis cov tais sab.
Yog tias koj txoj kev sib raug zoo yog kev sib deev + kev phooj ywg ... nws yog kev hlub
Peb txhua tus tau ntsib ib tus neeg uas peb xav tias peb tuaj yeem ua phooj ywg zoo, tab sis tsis muaj qhov ci. Qhov ntxeev ntawm qhov ntawd yog kev sib tham ib tus neeg uas koj tsis tuaj yeem xav txog thiab tsis tuaj yeem tso tseg kev npau suav txog, tab sis tsis muaj kev xav rau koj txoj kev sib raug zoo. Dab tsi yog lo lus hais txog kev hlub ua phooj ywg teeb rau hluav taws? Nws yog! Nrog Sternberg txoj kev xav, kev npau taws thiab kev mob siab rau feem ntau yog ua tiav los ntawm kev phooj ywg thiab kev sib raug zoo. Yog li, yog tias koj tsis muaj ob qho tib si, koj yuav tsis muaj kev hlub romantic.
Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj muaj kev ntxhov siab
Kuv xav hais tias kev npau taws tsis yog qhov phem; nws yog qhov pib ntawm kev sib raug zoo heev. Tab sis ob tog yuav tsum ua hauj lwm kom tau mus rau qhov chaw ntawm kev hlub, thiab tiag tiag qhib rau kev poob. Yog tias koj tsis yog ob leeg ntawm tib nplooj ntawv, nws yuav tsis hloov zuj zus. Yog tias koj xav tau kev hlub, tsis yog kev ntshaw xwb, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum siv zog rau hauv.
1. Ua ntej hnub hmo, tsis yog hmo pw ua ke
Yog tias koj txoj kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev xav tsis tau hloov zuj zus, coj koj tus kheej tawm ntawm ib puag ncig (aka hauv tsev) qhov twg koj yuav raug ntxias dhau mus ua haujlwm. Taug kev los yog taug kev mus ib txhis. Nqa ib lub raj mis cawv, thiab txaus siab rau kev noj mov hauv chaw ua si. Mus ncig ua si me me ua ke. Muab koj tus kheej tiag tiag hauv cov xwm txheej uas kev sib tham tuaj yeem hloov zuj zus, thiab koj tuaj yeem sib paub.
2. Nug cov lus nug
Koj yuav tsum tau dhau ntawm tus neeg txhua hnub, thiab mus rau hauv cov khoom ntawm lawv txoj kev npau suav. Yog tias koj tau sib tham ib ntus - tsawg kawg yog ob peb lub hlis - koj yuav tsum xav nug seb lawv pom lawv lub neej mus qhov twg, yog lawv xav tau me nyuam, yog lawv xav txog kev sib yuav muaj ib hnub, yog lawv xav mus ncig, yam zoo li cas ntawm lub neej lawv xav kom muaj. Qhov no yog li cas koj pom yog tias koj tab tom hloov zuj zus mus rau tib qho kev taw qhia, thiab yog tias koj tuaj yeem ua tiav ib leeg ntawm txoj kev. Nws ua rau kuv xav tsis thoob tias muaj pes tsawg tus neeg tsis nug cov lus nug tob dua, thiab xaus sijhawm nrog ib tus neeg uas tsis nyob hauv nws rau tib lub laj thawj (xws li kev sib yuav, menyuam yaus, kev cog lus) uas lawv yog.
3. Tham hauv xov tooj
Thaum kuv tab tom sib tham, ib qho cim txawv txawv ntawm txhua tus neeg uas tau nqis peev tiag los tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog kuv: Lawv tau hu kuv hauv xov tooj. Kev hnov ib tug neeg lub suab thiab sib qhia cov dab neeg hais lus, txawm tias koj tsis tuaj yeem ua lub cev nrog tus neeg, ua rau muaj kev sib raug zoo ntau dua thiab qhia tias koj tau mob siab rau txoj haujlwm. Nws yuav siv kaum vib nas this los xa ib tsab ntawv; nws yuav siv sij hawm teem ib sab los hu xov tooj. Ua ntej nws, thiab hais kom nws los ntawm koj tus khub.
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Yog tias koj tab tom nrhiav kev hlub, tsis txhob nkim sijhawm rau ib tus neeg uas yog txhua yam hais txog kev hlub. Nco ntsoov tias koj tab tom nrhiav tawm, tsim thiab kho kom zoo rau kev phooj ywg nrog kev mob siab rau koj xav rau lawv.
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