Koj nyeem 50 Duab ntxoov ntxoo Grey. Koj muaj lub vibrator . Koj puas paub tias kink yog dab tsi... lossis koj puas? Peb coj tus kws kho mob sib deev los tham txhua yam kink vs fetish yog tias koj xav tshawb nrhiav ib-los yog ob qho tib si-hauv chav pw. Khawb koj tus kheej rau hauv, vim nws tab tom yuav steamy.
Yog li, dab tsi yog qhov kink?
Ib tug kink yog ib yam dab tsi kev sib deev uas ib tug neeg nyiam ua nrog lawv tus kheej los yog pom zoo nrog cov neeg koom tes, hais tias Rosara Torrisi, PhD los ntawm Lub koom haum Long Island of Sex Therapy . Qhov no feem ntau yog ib yam uas xav tias sab nraud ntawm kev sib deev tseem ceeb. Ib qho kink feem ntau coj lub zog ntxiv rau kev sib deev, piav qhia Torrisi (xav tias: BDSM, lub luag haujlwm ua si lossis polyamory).
Nws tsis tsim nyog, txawm li cas los xij, qhov uas suav tias yog kinky yog cov ntsiab lus. Piv txwv li: Txawm tias koj niam koj txiv yuav xav li ntawd cov khoom ua si sib deev yog kinky, koj bestie suav lawv zoo nkauj vanilla.
Tau lawm. Yog li, dab tsi yog fetish?
Lub fetish zoo ib yam li kink, tab sis qhov sib txawv yog tias ib yam dab tsi yog fetish thaum nws YUAV TSUM nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim rau tus neeg kom ua tiav kev sib deev arousal lossis kev lom zem. Qhov no tuaj yeem yog kev ua (xws li kev sib deev hauv pej xeem) lossis khoom (xws li ko taw). Qhov tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov ntawm no yog qhov fetish yog ib yam dab tsi uas tus neeg tsis tuaj yeem aroused yam tsis muaj - rau qee cov neeg tsuas xav txog qhov fetish tuaj yeem txaus thaum lwm tus yuav xav tau koom nrog cov khoom lossis kev coj cwj pwm hauv qee txoj kev.
Tos, yog li qhov txawv ntawm kink thiab fetish yog dab tsi?
Nws tuaj yeem muaj qee qhov sib tshooj ntawm kink thiab fetish yog li peb nkag siab qhov tsis meej pem. Dr. Torrisi rhuav tshem qhov sib txawv li seb nws yog ib yam dab tsi rau ib tug neeg nyiam ua los yog nws yog ib yam dab tsi ib tug neeg muaj ua kom muaj kev sib deev txaus siab.
Nov yog ib qho piv txwv: Yog tias muaj ib hmo pw hauv txaj, koj hnov koj cov neeg zej zog mus rau ntawm nws thiab nws tig koj, qhov ntawd yog kinky. Tab sis, yog tias koj xav tau mus mloog los yog saib lwm tus muaj kev sib deev thiaj li xav tias aroused ces yog fetish.
Koj tuaj yeem tshawb nrhiav kinks thiab fetishes yam nyab xeeb li cas?
Ob qho tseem ceeb tshaj plaws txog kev tshawb nrhiav kinks thiab fetishes yog kev tso cai thiab kev npaj kev nyab xeeb, hais tias Torrisi. Qhov ntawd txhais tau tias nrhiav tau tus khub uas koj tuaj yeem ntseeg tau thiab ua koj qhov kev tshawb fawb (xws li kev kawm yuav ua li cas khi ib lub pob zoo, piv txwv li). Khaws lub ntsiab lus RACK hauv siab, uas tsis yog fetish tab sis hloov mus rau kev pheej hmoo paub kev pom zoo kink. Nws yog ib lo lus siv nyob rau hauv lub kink zej zog kom paub tseeb tias tag nrho cov tog neeg yog xis thiab nyab xeeb.
Muaj cov kev pabcuam zoo heev los ntawm cov neeg uas ua haujlwm nrog kinks thiab fetishes, hais tias Torrisi. Nws pom zoo kom mus xyuas Lub Tsev Liab rau cov khoom, cov kws qhia ntawv, kev tshawb fawb thiab lwm yam. Koom nrog zej zog kom kawm paub ntau ntxiv txog yuav ua li cas txhawm rau tshawb xyuas kinks thiab fetishes yog qhov tseem ceeb, nws hais ntxiv.
Yog tias koj tab tom muaj kev ntxhov siab txog ib qho kink lossis fetish, ncav cuag tus kws kho mob sib deev yuav pab tau.
Hais txog: 2 lo lus uas tus kws kho mob sib deev hlub (thiab 2 Koj Yuav Tsum Zam)
